The Divorce Planner

The role of a divorce planner is much like the role of a wedding planner except the focus is divorce. The vast amounts of details involved with divorce can be over looked or too emotionally difficult to handle.

With support - direction, referrals and a thorough plan will be prepared to put clients in the best possible position post-divorce.

What is Involved?

A divorce plan involves all aspects of the divorce that the client needs it to. Divorce is a time of great change and there are many aspects to the process that maybe new or daunting such as, when and how to tell children, deciding on the legal course to follow, finding a lawyer, and how to pay for it all, to main a few. We offer different programs to match the needs of our clients, Click here for programs and services.

Financing Divorce

If you haven’t thought about it before, do so now, how are you going to fund the divorce? Use the ‘Divorce Planner – Financial Worksheet’ to review your income and expenses and determine how much money you will need during the divorce process. Click Here.

Divorce Etiquette

Knowing what to say and how to say it changes when divorce proceedings start. Getting your point across can be like scaling a mountain. The rules have changed and the only way to get through is to quickly learn the new rules and ways of behavior so you do not complicate affairs. This includes not only body language but also how to communicate with your ex, your lawyer, in court, and more. If you are unsure how to behave in these new circumstances we hold regular Divorce Etiquette workshops.

Divorce Support

Divorce support is often best when it comes from outside. Family and friends are great as a shoulder to cry on but can be too close to give real no nonsense feedback to the difficult decisions you face. Lawyers are expensive and do not have answers to many of the topics that arise in divorce, especially the emotional questions. For more on support, have a look at the programs and services.

From our programs you will

• Learn to deal with lawyers and the legal system.
• Help your children deal with the issues associated with their parents no longer being together.
• Not let the financial settlement get out of control while maintaining a financial base until settlement is reached.
• Cope with the personal trauma of separating and learn how to move into a new phase of life.

We understand the trauma and emotional upheaval divorce and separation brings to the whole family. We understand that it is not always easy to stay on track without letting issues escalate to a point where you no longer feel in control. In a life altering situation such as divorce, divorce planning is to discover and focus on what is important to you. These are programs for your personal growth as well as a tools to get you through the hardest of times.